Lack of Social Interaction? Consider Our Seniors...
While we complain about not being able to catch up with our friends for a cuppa, take the kids to football and netball training or to go on that family holiday we had planned, there is a large portion within our community who are likely to be doing...
While we complain about not being able to catch up with our friends for a cuppa, take the kids to football and netball training or to go on that family holiday we had planned, there is a large portion within our community who are likely to be doing it a lot tougher than many of us realise.
They are the most senior of our community and arguably the most respected. They have survived war, raised large families, gone without food for the sake of their children, lived without the luxuries of running water and electricity, not to mention mobile phones and internet!
For those fortunate enough to still have grandparents and great grandparents, and those whose parents are elderly, we have listened as they spoke of their childhood; asked us all about our day told us what Mrs Whats-her-name made for afternoon tea last Wednesday. An enormous cuddle from the kids and grandkids, pottering out in the shed with junior, or simply sharing a cup of tea with their friends at their local café. All these things have suddenly been taken away from them thanks to bloody COVID. The number one joy in their lives, being surrounded by family and friends - currently not a possibility.
And let’s not forget about the residents in Murray Haven. While the staff do an amazing job tending to their needs, keeping them comfortable and safe, and doing their best at keeping idle hands busy, the thing that the residents most look forward to: spontaneous visits from friends, family or volunteers, also taken away.
Try to imagine for a moment how that must feel for the residents. The people they love the most, the ones they are so excited about seeing that they are up extra early in anticipation of a visit; hair done, a touch of lippy or a favourite shirt, parked up in the dining room as they wait for their arrival.
What’s the first thing they want to do when they see their loved one? A great big, warm, heartfelt cuddle and kiss on the cheek.
Do you know what human contact does for an elderly person? When humans touch with empathy or kindness, their bodies produce oxytocin, the hormone that promotes bonding and closeness, and lowers the production of cortisol, the hormone associated with stress and anxiety.
Research has shown that touch is vitally important for older people, especially those living with dementia, and can lead to better health outcomes and improved wellbeing, as well as reducing the incidence of people acting out their frustrations.
The poor darlings must really be feeling it, made to feel as though they’re highly toxic because they can’t be touched on the hand when they’re feeling lost or given a hug when they’re upset because they can’t see their family. The staff must feel terrible for them. All because of bloody COVID.
I just want the senior members of this community to know that you are in our thoughts.
Please be patient, and know that as difficult as it must be, when this bloody thing is over there is a huge back-order of cuddles and reassuring touches on the hand ready for you.
Please don’t think you are forgotten. You are at the top of the list of priority people requiring urgent attention.
